Top Ten Gifts She Secretly Wants

Gift Ideas for Her. 2017 Holiday Gift Guide. Gifts She Secretly Wants.

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Top 10 Gifts She Secretly Wants


#1     Kindle Paperwhite E-reader

Now she can enjoy reading her books and magazines on a glare-free screen in the sunlight or in bed at night. This best-selling Kindle Paperwhite E-reader lasts weeks on one-battery charge and has millions of book titles for $2.99 or less.


#2    iRobot Roomba 960 Robot Vacuum

One less chore to think about! Everyone in her home will love having this iRobot Roomba Vacuum clean the floors automatically!



#3    VicTsign Cool Mist Humidifier & Essential Oil Diffuser

If she doesn’t already have an essential oil diffuser, she definitely wants one! Her friends have probably already told her about their amazing experience and the health benefits of essential oils. This best-selling VicTsing Humidifier and Essential Oil Diffuser will keep her home smelling amazing! She will love this!


#4    Grocery Delivery

Sometimes she just really doesn’t like going to the grocery store. Especially if she has to take the kids with her! She will love grocery shopping with a few clicks and have it show up at her door! Amazon Fresh now offers grocery delivery!



#5    YOUSA Super Soft Shaggy Faux Fur Blanket

A lady needs a favorite blanket to cozy up with and compliments her home decor too. This YOUSA Shaggy Faux Fur Throw Blanket will be her favorite!


#6    Nespresso Vertuo Coffee and Espresso Machine

If she loves her coffee or espresso, then she is probably wanting a quality maker at home. This best-selling Nespresso Vertuo Machine makes both coffee AND espresso! Comes in different colors too!


#7    Nikon D3400 24.2 DSLR Camera Kit

If she is creative and likes to take a lot of pictures but she only uses her phone, getting a ‘real’ camera has probably crossed her mind. This best-selling Nikon Camera Kit has all she will need to get started!






#8    Vassoul Women’s Hair Remover

She can stop using her man’s shaver for her little chin hairs now! Yes, ladies get those occasionally. She will love that this Vassoul Hair Remover is for her face AND body.


#9    Amope Pedi Perfect Electronic Foot File

She will use this all the time to keep her feet nice and soft between those pedicure visits! This Amope Foot File is easier to use than the manual foot files most people have.


#10  BESTOPE Blackhead Remover and Pimple Extractor.

Hormones can get the best of a lady’s skin sometimes. The BESTOPE tool is very handy and more sanitary than using fingernails to pop or extract those ugly suckers when they show their ugly heads. A gift that is probably best gifted with other beauty items. Pick one of these up for yourself too!




Year 1994 {Baby Book & Journal Filler}


Year 1994 Baby Book & Journal Filler. 1994 New Headlines, Trends, World Leaders, and Cost of Living compiled for 1994. For Baby Books, Photo Books, and Commemorative Projects. #Baby #Babybook #Babyshower #Photobook #1994 #Year1994 #WorldAroundMe #Printable #DigitalDownload

Welcome to the year 1994!

Below you will find the compiled list of major events, trends, world leaders, cost of living, and popular culture for the year 1994. I hope this helps you with the baby book, time capsule, or commemorative project you’re working on.

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Printables for 1994:

coming soon…  World Around Me /  1 Page / Full Post


Research contributor: Kate Muller

1994 Cost of things (U.S. Averages):

Gallon of Milk~ $2.88 (
Dozen Eggs (Large, Grade A)~  $0.87 (
Loaf of bread (1lb)~ $1.59 (
U.S. Postage Stamp~ 29 cents (
New Car Price (light vehicles)~ $12,350 (
Regular Unleaded Gallon of Gas~ $1.11 (
Movie Ticket~ $4.18 (
Median sales price of new house~ $129,900 (
Median Household Income~ $51,065 (
Minimum Wage~ $4.25 (
Living wage for a family of 4 (2 working adults & 2 children)~ U.S. efforts began in 1994 and reported the next year. (Wikipedia)


1994 Top Technology:

(Wikipedia, Google)
Sony Trinitron
Amitron TV
~Smart phones~
None yet
~Wearable Technology~
None yet
 ~Tablets & Readers~
None yet
~Online Social Communities~
None yet
Sony and Philips announce they will work together to develop a new kind of high density medium, commonly known as Digital Versatile Disc (DVD).
~Game systems~
Sega Nomad
Sega Saturn
Super Game Boy
Aiwa Mega-CD
Playdia multimedia home console
PC-FX multimedia home console
Acura Integra GS-R
BMW 325i/325is
Chrysler Concorde
Ford Probe GT

In the news…
-TV/VCR combinations are selling briskly. According to the electronic Industries Assn. Sales were up 55%.
America Online (AOL) has some 600,000 customers and growing.
-Intel delivers the most powerful personal computer to its new family of high-speed Pentium microprocessors.
-Apple Computer, Inc. releases the first Macintosh computers to use the new PowerPC Microprocessors. This is considered to be a major leap in personal computer, as well as Macintosh history.
-In May, 1994, 99% of U.S. households have at least one television set.
-Microsoft announces it will no longer sell or support the MS-DOS operating system separately from Microsoft Windows. This had been its mainstay since 1980.
-Sony Corp. signs a $25 million deal to install its Sony Dynamic digital sound system in AMC movie theaters.
-Start-up company Plasmaco demonstrated a color plasma display at an industry convention in San Jose. -Panasonic Corporation began a joint development project with Plasmaco, which led in 1996 to the purchase of Plasmaco, its color AC technology, and its American factory.
-Microsoft Chairman Bill Gates unveils an on-line service called Microsoft Network that will launch as part of Microsoft’s new personal computer operating system, Windows 95.
-The first version of web browser Netscape Navigator is released.


1994 Top Celebrities:

( and
Tom Hanks
Sandra Bullock
Jim Carrey
Jared Leto
Lisa Marie Presley
Michael Jackson
Hugh Grant
Robin Wright
Keanu Reeves
Leonardo DiCaprio
Johnny Depp
Julia Roberts
Jerry Seinfeld
Tim Robbins
Cameron Diaz
Jennifer Aniston
Will Smith
Neve Campbell
Claire Danes
Tia & Tamera Mowry
John Travolta
Celine Dion
Samuel L. Jackson
Bruce Willis
Cindy Crawford
Helen Hunt
George Clooney
Mariah Carey


1994 Top Athletes:

Michael Jordan
Mia Hamm
Evander Holyfield
Dale Earnhardt
Andre Agassi
Monica Seles
Shaquille O’Neal
Jack Nicklaus
Wayne Gretzky
Patrick Ewing
Jerry Rice


1994 Top Sporting Events:

Super Bowl: Dallas Cowboys win 30-13 against the Buffalo Bills
Daytona 500: Loy Allen, Jr.
The Kentucky Derby: Go for Gin
The Masters: José María Olazábal
NBA Championship: Houston Rockets defeat the New York Knicks 4-3
Wimbledon: Gentlemen’s singles: Pete Sampras / Women’s Singles: Conchita Martínez
FIFA World Cup: Brazil beat Italy 3-2
Women’s World Cup: N/A
World Series: The 1994 World Series was cancelled due to an ongoing strike by the Major League Baseball Players Association.
Olympics: 1994 Winter Olympics Lillehammer, Norway Top three winning countries: Norway won 26 medals, Germany won 24 medals, Russia won 23 medals


1994 Top Songs:

( Hot 100)
The Sign ~ Ace of Base
I Swear ~ All-4-One
I’ll Make Love to You ~ Boyz II Men
The Power of Love ~ Celine Dion
Hero ~ Mariah Carey
Stay (I Missed You) ~ Lisa Loeb and Nine Stories
Breathe Again ~ Toni Braxton
All for Love ~ Bryan Adams, Rod Stewart, Sting
All that She Wants ~ Ace of Base
Don’t Turn Around ~ Ace of Base


1994 Top Television Shows:

My So-Called Life
Murphy Brown
Home Improvement
The X-Files
The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air
Law & Order
Murder, She Wrote
Mad About You
Northern Exposure


1994 Top Movies:

Forrest Gump
The Lion King
True Lies
The Santa Clause
The Flintstones
Dumb and Dumber
Clear and Present Danger
The Mask
Pulp Fiction
Interview with the Vampire

Other popular movies…
The Client
Star Trek: Generations
Ace Ventura: Pet Detective
Legends of the Fall
The Specialist
Four Weddings and a Funeral
The Little Rascals


1994 Top Books:

One for the Money ~ Janet Evanovich
The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle ~ Haruki Murakami
Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil: A Savannah Story ~ John Berendt
Wizard’s First Rule ~ Terry Goodkind
Snow Falling on Cedars ~ David Guterson
Walk Two Moons ~ Sharon Creech
The Alienist ~ Caleb Carr
Insomnia ~ Stephen King
The Chamber ~ John Grisham
Lord of Chaos ~ Robert Jordan


1994 Top Fashion and Trends:

One-strap overalls
Spandex bike shorts
Crop tops
Vintage dresses
Babydoll dresses
Micro miniskirts
Denim vests
White tees under sundresses
Fluevog shoes
Boyfriend jeans
Silk pajamas
“The Rachel” haircut
Bra top
Mood rings
Neon windbreakers
Combat boots
Unbuttoned shirts over graphic tees
Hush Puppies
Bleached blonde hair
Bucket hats
JanSport backpacks
Cargo pants


1994 World Population:

5,653,315,893 and counting…


1994 World Leaders:

Bill Clinton, President of the United States
Warren Christopher, United States Secretary of State
Jean Chrétien, Prime Minister of Canada
Jiang Zemin, President of China
Akihito, Emperor of Japan
Roman Herzog, President of Germany
Boris Yeltsin, President of Russia
John Major, Prime Minister of the United Kingdom
Pope John Paul II of Vatican City
François Mitterrand, President of France
Shankar Dayal Sharma, President of India
Ezer Weizman, President of Israel
Boutros Boutros-Ghali, Secretary-General of the United Nations


1994 Major Events and Headlines:

January 6 – In Detroit, Nancy Kerrigan is clubbed on the right leg by an assailant, under orders from figure skating rival Tonya Harding’s ex-husband.
January 14 – U.S. President Bill Clinton and Russian President Boris Yeltsin sign the Kremlin accords, which stop the preprogrammed aiming of nuclear missiles toward each country’s targets, and also provide for the dismantling of the nuclear arsenal in Ukraine.
January 21 – Lorena Bobbitt is found not guilty by reason of insanity on charges of mutilating her husband John.
January 25 – U.S. President Bill Clinton delivers his first State of the Union address, calling for health care reform, a ban on assault weapons, and welfare reform.
February 1 – In Portland, Oregon, Tonya Harding’s ex-husband Jeff Gillooly pleads guilty for his role in attacking figure skater Nancy Kerrigan. He accepts a plea bargain, admitting to racketeering charges in exchange for testimony against Harding.
February 12 – Edvard Munch’s painting “The Scream” is stolen in Oslo (it is recovered on May 7).
February 12 – The 1994 Winter Olympics begin in Lillehammer.
March 16 – In Portland, Oregon, Tonya Harding pleads guilty to conspiracy to hinder prosecution for trying to cover-up an attack on figure skating rival Nancy Kerrigan. She is fined $100,000 and banned from the sport.
April 19 – A Los Angeles jury awards $3.8 million to Rodney King for violation of his civil rights.
April 22 – Richard Nixon dies in New York City, nearly 20 years after he resigned in 1974. His funeral is the first funeral of a U.S. President since the death of Lyndon B. Johnson in 1973.
May 10 – Nelson Mandela is inaugurated as South Africa’s first black president.
June 12 – Nicole Brown Simpson and Ronald Lyle Goldman are murdered outside the Simpson home in Los Angeles. O. J. Simpson is later acquitted of the killings, but is held liable in a civil suit.
June 14 – The New York Rangers win the Stanley Cup, in 7 games over the Vancouver Canucks. It was New York’s first Stanley Cup since 1940. Riots erupt in Vancouver in response to the victory causing $1.1 million Canadian dollars in damage.
June 17 – NFL star O. J. Simpson and his friend Al Cowlings flee from police in his white Ford Bronco. The low-speed chase ends at Simpson’s Brentwood, Los Angeles mansion, where he surrenders.
July 17 – Brazil wins the 1994 FIFA World Cup, defeating Italy by 3-2 in penalties (full-time 0–0).
August 12 – The 1994-95 Major League Baseball strike is called, ending the 1994 MLB Season.
September 17 – Heather Whitestone becomes the first hearing impaired contestant to win the Miss America entitlement. Whitestone becomes Miss America 1995.
November 5 – George Foreman wins the WBA and IBF World Heavyweight Championships by KO’ing Michael Moorer becoming the oldest heavyweight champion in history.


1994 Pop Culture:

January – John Lennon, Elton John, Duane Eddy, Grateful Dead, and The Animals are inducted into the Rock ‘n’ Roll Hall of Fame.
January – Chevy Chase said he was stunned that he was dropped from his Fox talk show after just 5 1/2 weeks.
February 1 – Punk rock band Green Day releases their album Dookie, which will eventually sell over 20 million copies worldwide.
March – Charles Kuralt announces he is leaving CBS after 37 years.
March – Howard Stern announces his plans to run for governor of New York, offering a platform that includes passing the death penalty, getting road crews to work only at night, and staggering highway tolls to prevent traffic jams.
March 1 – Whitney Houston’s “I Will Always Love You” wins Record of the Year at the 36th Annual Grammy Awards.
March 15 – “Schindler’s List” wins Best Picture at the Academy Awards.
March 21 – The 66th Academy Awards, hosted by Whoopi Goldberg, are held at the Dorothy Chandler Pavilion in Los Angeles. Steven Spielberg’s Holocaust drama, Schindler’s List, wins 7 Oscars including Best Picture and Best Director (Spielberg).
April 8 – Kurt Cobain, songwriter and front man for the band Nirvana, is found dead at his Lake Washington home of an apparent self-inflicted shotgun wound to the head.
June 15 – The Lion King, the highest grossing hand-drawn animated feature, is released by Walt Disney Pictures.
August 12 – Woodstock ’94 begins in Saugerties, New York. It is the 25-year anniversary of Woodstock in 1969.
October – “The Mighty Morphin Power Rangers” tops all ratings lists for kids’ TV.


1994 Top Science Breakthroughs:

January 8 – Soyuz TM-18: Valeri Polyakov begins his 437.7 day orbit, eventually setting the world record for days spent in orbit.
April 20 – The People’s Republic of China joins the Internet.
May 6 – The Channel Tunnel, which took 15,000 workers over 7 years to complete, opens between England and France, enabling passengers to travel between the two countries in 35 minutes.
May 10 – An annular eclipse of the Sun is visible across much of North America.
September 10 – Wollemia nobilis (the ‘Wollemi Pine’), previously known only from fossils, is discovered living in remote rainforest gorges in the Wollemi National Park of New South Wales by canyoner David Noble, 150 km from Australia’s largest city.




Hybrid Homeschooling Pros and Cons

Homeschooling. Hybrid Homeschooling Pros & Cons. #Homeschooling #OnlineSchool

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{Updated March 27, 2018}

Hybrid homeschooling (blended learning) has been an amazing alternative for my son and has made all the difference in his educational growth and experience. As we get near the end of our first year of this type of homeschooling (2016), I wanted to share what we have learned. I’ll share a bit of the struggle that got us to this point, give the pros and cons, and tell you how we blend homeschool and our work schedules . Hopefully our experience will give you some insight into this schooling option and help you decide what is best for your family!


Public School Start

Homeschooling started to appeal to me a couple of years ago when my oldest son, Declan, was in second grade at a public school. I saw his natural curiosity and love of learning change into resistance, stress, anger, and tears. He started to fight me everyday before school, and after school he had serious meltdowns. Determined not to create a special ‘snowflake’ mentality in him I chalked it up to normal kid stuff, or maybe even bullying at school. His teacher said he got along well with others and had many friends in class. Declan confirmed that he was not being bullied. So I volunteered in his classroom thinking it would give me better insight, but it didn’t. I was frustrated.

As our daily struggle continued I started to question our path with traditional education. The one-size-fits-all way of teaching may work for some, or many, but it wasn’t working for Declan. School-option posts that crossed my Facebook and Pinterest news feeds now gained my attention. The information in those posts inspired me! They also intimidated me. Homeschooling felt too huge of a responsibility and I didn’t know how I would still be able to have a career, so I pushed the idea aside.


The Decision to Homeschool

During his third grade year, Declan went from testing ‘well above average’ to ‘below average’ in subjects I knew he excels at. His meltdowns and overall demeanor were getting worse too. When I could almost label him as being depressed I knew something had to change. He had been a generally happy kid and still was during school breaks. Was he getting bored in school because he was advanced? Was he not understanding how they are teaching? Is he just being lazy? Does he have a learning disability? Kids at this age don’t really get depressed, do they? Moody maybe, but depressed? I was searching for answers.

With conversations with his teacher and school staff, my own research, and Declan finally opening up about his struggles at school, it was concluded that he was getting bored in subjects he excelled at and stressed when they moved too quickly through lessons he needed more time on. He was in a perpetual cycle of boredom and stress at school. Depression was a side effect of the stress interfering with sleep quality, eating habits, and his overall outlook on learning and life.

After much debate and hesitation, my husband and I started to research and pursue local homeschool options for the next school year. I was definitely intimidated. I doubted my teaching ability and patience level to homeschool my own child. With my introverted nature I often admired a teacher’s ability to instruct a bunch of kids all day and the continuous effort it takes to keep them on task. Honestly, to me being a teacher seems utterly exhausting. But, the fear of my child slipping through public-school cracks and ending up desolate later in life kept flashing before my eyes. A little dramatic? Probably. But, I felt like I had little choice other than to think outside the box with his education experience. We figured we could try homeschooling for a year and see how it goes. If we failed miserably we would put him back in the traditional classroom setting with hopefully little damage done.



Homeschooling for Working Parents. Can you homeschool your child if you work? Homeschool options that allow you to blend homeschool and work schedules. What inspired our decision to homeschool. Homeschooling pros and cons. Homeschool programs and resources.



Homeschool Options

We are in Northern Colorado, and our school system has a few options for parents who are looking to customize their child’s learning curriculum. You will have to look and see what your school district, or nearby districts, offer homeschool families. Through my own research I noticed that some state’s school systems are starting to offer more resources and options to families, while other states seem to keep homeschool completely separate from the public system. Some prefer it that way! I am happy with the integration we have here. The options emerging are starting to make homeschooling available to everyone, including working parents.

Our school district offers traditional public schools, charter and private schools, co-ops, montessori, waldorf, a hybrid school(blended learning), and homeschool ‘options’ classes. Homeschoolers can participate in ‘options’ classes, in an on-campus classroom setting, various days of the week. The hybrid school appealed to me the most. This ‘hybrid’ school is a combination of public-school online classes done at home on MWF and on-campus classes TTh. I liked this option because I would have teacher guidance with the curriculum, peer interaction for Declan, parent support from the get-go, and it felt like it would ease us into homeschooling. Plus, his hybrid schedule allows me to still work on days he is in the classroom and intermittently on his days at home. The hybrid school in our district is still part of the public school system and receives state funding, so there is no tuition and the curriculum is free. The online curriculum is through which our school district pays for. Disclosure: I am not affiliated with


Our First Year Of Hybrid Homeschooling

Before school started, other parents from Declan’s school were already reaching out to us! I was very grateful to have support already in place before school started. This parent support helped ease my fears and gain confidence in my ability to do this new way of schooling. They told me the first couple weeks would be overwhelming but that it gets easier the more we get the hang of‘s software and scheduling.


Homeschool first day. What to expect.
Our first day of hybrid homeschool.


They were right! Our first day started good, but by the end of the day it was a disaster. We were both in tears. Even though‘s website is fairly intuitive and easy to navigate, we just weren’t familiar with it yet. Fear of getting it wrong ruled our first week, but with guidance and after a month of getting comfortable with the online curriculum and on-campus classes, we began to relax a bit. We have learned a lot this year! Here are some of the awesome, and not-so-awesome, things about hybrid homeschooling.


Hybrid Homeschooling Pros and Cons

Homeschooling Pros:

Growth!-  Not only has Declan grown this past year, but so have I. We have both developed confidence by navigating teaching and learning together. He learns best when topics turn into conversations and he can see how the lesson relates to real life. We aren’t perfect, there are still bad days, but when I can peak his curiosity about the subject at hand, it is magic! I love to see his eyes light up when it clicks. Even though I don’t require Declan to be a straight-A student, I am proud to say that he has been for most of this year!

Individual Attention- At home, Declan gets one-on-one help from me but he also receives a lot of individual attention on campus. The 4th and 5th graders are in one classroom with their teacher and an assistant. The are 19 kids total in the classroom. The 4th graders can work with the 5th graders if they reach their level. The 5th graders also help the younger ones when they need extra help. They learn about collaboration and healthy competition.


What homeschool really looks like.
What homeschool really looks like.


Curriculum Flexibility Declan is now able to work at his own pace and it has made a big difference! He works fast through subjects he excels at, and areas he struggles with he spends more time on and I can give the help he needs, most of the time. If I am stumped, we look up resources online to help us out.

At the beginning of the year, we went through a lot of the lessons together but now he knows what to expect so he does a lot of his lessons independently. It is common for kids in his class to advance to the next grade level depending on subject and be at various grade levels. Example: Declan may be at his own grade level in math but can advance to the next grade level in reading. There are kids that have advanced more than one grade level in certain subjects. Many of the high school students are graduating with college credits or associates degrees. They can also complete their classes ahead of schedule for an early summer break!


Homeschool curriculum progress. Staying on track.
Hybrid homeschool progress on


Time Flexibility We set our homeschool days in block format because he seems to do better with focusing on one subject for longer periods instead of jumping all around. allows you to set up your own schedule and shows you what pace you need to work at to complete the curriculum by the end of the year. Mondays he works through a week’s worth of History lessons. Wednesdays it’s Literature and Vocabulary. Fridays are Math. On-campus days they do Science, Math, Language Arts, Art, Music, and P.E. Declan is currently on track to complete this year’s curriculum a little early. We have taken advantage of this flexibility and done extra-curricular activities with the kids on some school days. Flexibility also makes it less stressful when one of the kids is sick and it allows me to work too.


Homeschool weekly schedule. Block Schedule on
Hybrid homeschool weekly schedule. We set up a block schedule. TTh are on campus. 4th grade online curriculum.


Free Evenings and Weekends Evenings and weekends are now more about free time instead of homework. Occasionally, when a lesson that takes him longer his other work will be pushed into the evenings or weekends but for the most part all school work is completed during the weekdays.

Socialization and Peer Interaction Being in the classroom on Tuesdays and Thursdays with other kids offers Declan a setting where he can build friendships and collaborate with others in a group setting. Him and a friend have started to work toward broadcasting a YouTube gaming channel. It is fun to watch their problem solving skills take form throughout the process.

Life skills- We incorporate life skills into Declan’s weekly routine. Mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health are important for a well-balanced life. We incorporate meditation as a tool to help deal with thoughts, emotions, and foster introspection. I mix in books and shows that will spark conversations about life and the deeper stuff. Getting outside, sports, adventure, and free play are also something we encourage daily. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the dog and his little brother, for short periods of time, develop a sense of responsibility and contribution. We show him how to earn his wants and budget his money. Our goal is for him to have the tools to create a meaningful life.


Homeschool physical education
Homeschool physical education. We headed to the slopes when Declan got ahead on his curriculum.


Guidance and Support Being new to homeschooling this year I am very thankful I chose the hybrid option. I think if I tried to do it all on my own I would have failed miserably. The guidance, support, and insight from school staff and other hybrid homeschool parents was necessary for me to gain the confidence I needed to teach my child. Many of the parent’s had also been full-time, independent homeschoolers and gave me insight to that option as well.

My Work Time Tuesdays and Thursdays are for working, or adult time. My youngest, Cash, goes to preschool on the days Declan is on campus. These are my scheduled work days to blog or build my wood chests. Occasionally, I get the chance to have lunch with a friend or treat myself to a pedicure! Many careers now offer flexible schedules to parents and the ability to work from home on certain days. This, along with the hybrid homeschool schedule, is making homeschooling a real option for more families.


Homeschooling Cons:

Curriculum Content– I am generally happy with but, some of the activities within the lessons seem like busy work. It is a common complaint with the parents at our school, but we do have the option to skip some of those activities if the lesson objectives were met. If Declan got the point of the lesson without having to do the activity then we mark it complete. I can decide if the activity is beneficial. At times, I have to look to outside resources to gain his interest with a lesson subject. History lessons in k12 are mostly text and pictures, some video. Pretty dry really. So we get creative and look for videos, story books, and conversation to bring it alive.

Government Standards I understand, now, that whatever homeschool option you choose you will still have to operate within state regulations. Many of the curriculum options out there have to meet regulatory requirements. Homeschoolers have to log a certain amount of hours per subject, per week. Curriculum objectives have to be met. Attendance and progress has to be kept track of. Our hybrid homeschool program even does state testing. I’m not sure if all homeschoolers are required to do state testing. You will have to check your state regulations.

Little Ones One of my biggest challenges is keeping my preschooler busy and not bothering Declan while he is working through school lessons. Especially when I am helping with a lesson. Legos, puzzles, books, the iPad have helped temporarily. It remains my biggest struggle.


Homeschooling with little ones
Tupperware fun while Declan and I work through school lessons.


Focus- Another struggle is keeping Declan focused. Some days he does great! Other days it feels like pulling teeth! A rewards system helps. We incorporate meditation and frequent breaks too.

Energy Drain- I need time by myself to recharge and be my best. It’s just how I am made. With my boys only at school two days a week, finding time to recharge is a luxury. I do my best during their in-school days and also at night after everyone’s in bed. We also hire a babysitter at least once a month!

Special Snowflake Syndrome- Even though we have worked to customize Declan’s learning experience I have tried to make a point not to create the ‘special snowflake syndrome’ in him. Life and people will not cater to him and I will not protect him from challenges. That is reality, and he has to be able to thrive within the larger system and contribute to society. He is required to help around the house.

Labels and Judgement As a hybrid homeschooler we may not fit into the typical homeschool definition and we don’t fit the public school box either. I have heard judgements from all sides. My answer is: We are all just doing our best with is working for us! This currently works for us, and I support whatever works for you!


Homeschooling Update {March 27, 2018}

Summer of 2016 we moved to the east coast for my husband’s work. Declan went back into public school because there weren’t any hybrid homeschooling options where we moved. We were really proud of how he readjusted back into the everyday classroom setting, though he wasn’t thrilled with having to get up really early again. He tested at, or above, grade level during state assessments so my being worried about him falling behind when we were homeschooling was put to rest. He has been back in the normal public school setting for two years now, but he asks me all the time if we can homeschool again. We are definitely looking into doing it again for the following reasons.

Public School Shootings

With public school shootings on the rise, homeschooling seems like the safer school option now.  Over the last couple years I see more and more parents looking to homeschool for good reason! I also see more and more online schooling/homeschooling options popping up! We are in Georgia now and I see that this state, along with many other states, have virtual academies that work with state certified teachers to help guide your student through their at-home curriculum. The virtual students can still participate in nearby school clubs, teams, and social events. We are seriously thinking of going this route.

Decline in Public School Atmosphere

This is Declan’s first year in middle school, and the things he tells me happen at school are just crazy! The foul language and mean behavior of his fellow students, and teachers too! I’m no prude, and I definitely love a perfectly-timed swear word here and there, but the mean and vulgar culture being bred in our public school system is OVER. THE. TOP! I went to public school, so I expect some ‘savage’ behavior as being part of it. But, it is to the point of really wondering if it is worth subjecting my kid to it for an education and social interaction, or if really is counterproductive.

What Now?

We are currently looking at local homeschooling options again. Declan prefers it for sure. He can get the sleep he needs, work at his own pace through each subject, have flexibility in his schedule, avoid school ‘active shooter’ drills, and he doesn’t have to deal with the underlying fear of a school shooting or the mean culture public-school kids are now subjected to daily.

Like most families, we have to consider how we will balance his homeschool schedule with our work schedules. Homeschooling is much easier when your children are in 3rd grade and above. They are likely able to work independently most of the time, with some guidance here and there. This is why we will keep our youngest in a public elementary school until his 3rd grade year. My husband’s work schedule doesn’t allow him to be home very much, but mine is more flexible and I can work from home most of the time.

With a lot of careers now allowing remote work, homeschooling is becoming a real option for families. The school system in the United States is changing and it is long overdue! We will see where it goes from here!


These Videos Inspired Our Decision to Homeschool!
Hackschooling Makes Me Happy | Logan LaPlante
RSA Animate: Changing Education Paradigms
Do Schools Kill Creativity | Sir Ken Robinson
I Just Sued The School System | Prince Ea

What We Use Every Week:  – This is the curriculum we follow and use to log hours and attendance.
Amazon & YouTube– My son is a visual learner so video content through these channels helps to bring subjects alive for him! We use these mostly for history and social studies related learning, but also for instructional videos.
Creative Live – A popular online classroom for music, photography, and other free and paid creative classes.
Learn & Master – Guitar lessons and more. Helpful when Declan wanted to learn to play his electric guitar.
Khan Academy – Free online courses in many subjects.  Also good for visual learners. It helped Declan with Math and being able to visualize it.

Books Declan Can’t Put Down:
Rules for A Knight – Ethan Hawke   (Teaches kids about life, perseverance, and character.)
I Survived Series – Lauren Tarchis  (Historical events told as a story through the eyes of kids.)
Percy Jackson – Rick Riordan  (Greek mythology and adventure)

Note: I will be adding to this list occasionally as we come across other great resources!

Feel free to add your story or input in the comments below!